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Civility: The Politics of Common Ground

On May 5, 2009, at a lavish dinner reception at the new, I.M. Pei-designed Chinese chancery, the Institute for Education (IFE) presented the 2009 IFE Civility Award to His Excellency Zhou Wenzhong, ambassador of the People’s Republic of China to the United States, in honor of China’s outstanding performance in the 29th Olympiad and its leadership on the world stage. Although the Institute has thus far awarded the honor to American leaders, the extraordinary nature of China's rise in the new century compelled us to look beyond our borders this year.

In addition to honoring Ambassador Zhou, the evening also brought together some of America’s finest opinion leaders with senior-level Chinese diplomats to discuss the subject of “China and the United States: A Vital Partnership.” The first of its kind, this exciting dinner forum provided an outstanding opportunity for leaders in government, business, and media to network with one another; cultivated enduring friendships between those leaders in the spirit of civility; and third, generated support for IFE’s ongoing work to promote better relations between the United States and China.

The DCM of the Chinese Embassy, Xie Feng, opened the evening by noting how far Sino-American relations have progressed in the past three decades, and thanked the journalists in attendance for engaging Chinese leaders. IFE’s Founder and CEO, Coach Kathy Kemper, echoed Mr. Xie’s sentiments and spotlighted the community service that IFE’s interns and fellows have done in China. (Read Coach Kemper's remarks.)

After an elegant, multi-course dinner, IFE’s Chairman of Ci- vility Programs, George Vradenburg, introduced Lawrence Eagleburger, the 62nd secretary of state and one of America’s most distinguished statesman. The secretary presented Ambas- sador Zhou with the Civility Award as well as a painting of the Ambassador Zhou receives Civility Award 2009 from Sec. ambassador by legendary artist Peter Max. IFE Trustee Mort Kondracke closed the ceremony by affirming that civility and dialogue must anchor our efforts to generate solutions to the world’s pressing challenges. With the relationship between China and the United States continuing to grow stronger, honoring Ambassador Zhou with our 2009 Civility Award was a fitting tribute to its importance.IFE is guided by the idea that together we are more effective than when we stand apart.

IFE recognizes that we need leaders who want to get back to the basics of finding common ground with one another and with other nations. We must reach across political divides and borders to build relationships, respect, and trust. At our core is the idea that by exchanging views -- by participating in shared activities in an atmosphere of civility and cordiality -- we can find solutions to the problems that face the world community.

IFE is a trusted facilitator, a mantle it carries with enormous pride. We work behind the scenes arranging opportunities where relationships, trust, and civility can be strengthened. IFE gatherings feature open dialogue, process, humor and fun. These forums allow principals and sometimes friends of IFE an opportunity to enjoy amusing, educational experiences. These activities have included evenings at The Phillips Collection, dining together, listening to a lecture on art, tennis and golf games, and family cookouts with individuals who would not normally spend time together.

IFE convenes political, business, diplomatic, academic, media and world leaders from the highest levels to encourage and participate in these forums and activities. Often these participants are brought together with the utmost of privacy and discretion; other times, they meet in public places like baseball or football games. Away from the pressures of the day, IFE believes that leaders can find common ground -- and foster civility.

Other examples of ways in which IFE promotes civility among diplomats, senior media, and business leaders include:

  • IFE brought together Senate veterans -- both Democrats and Republicans --
    to a dinner on the USS Sequoia Presidential Yacht, offering them a social venue
    for building relationships.
  • IFE invited US House and Senate committee members to join us at a Washington Nationals Major League Baseball game. The theme of this social gathering echoed the sentiment of the USS Sequoia event: that in spending time together, we build camaraderie.
  • IFE has arranged a variety of recreational events, such as group swims, cookouts, round robin tennis outings, and golf games that offer leaders a way to join together in a venue removed from everyday life inside the beltway.
  • Each year, IFE proudly presents its Civility award, which recognizes individuals for their commitment to the spirit of civility in political life. 2007 honorees recognized during an event at the Embassy of Belgium included Senator Susan Collins (R-ME) and Mayor Adrian Fenty (D) of the District of Columbia, who worked together on the DC Vote Initiative. And in a 2006 event hosted at the Polish embassy, Congressman Tom Davis (R- VA) and Mayor Anthony Williams received the award for their work on regional security, tourism, and transportation. IFE is honored to recognize public servants such as these, who embody civility, dialogue, friendship, trust, and respect.
  • IFE hosted a celebration of CIE at the home of James Kimsey, Chairman of the Kimsey Foundation and founder of America Online. Guests in attendance included Ambassadors, the White House Chief of Staff, Cabinet Secretaries, Members of Congress, business, and education and philanthropic leaders honored IFE’s Youth Global Citizenship programs. The focus was honoring the mission of the Youth Global Citizenship program: educating for the next generation of world citizens.

In short, IFE excels at finding common ground.

IFE believes that camaraderie, civility, trust, and dialogue must be the foundation of friendship and bonds through which we can find solutions that benefit the world community.

"Coach Kemper is an opinion maker. INFO is an insider's dream: candid free-flowing discussions with the elite policy makers of our time. Journalists, think tanks, business, and often-former speakers come to listen, laugh, and be educated. And you have to be invited by Coach. Tom Friedman spoke awhile back and Justice Breyer, Joel Klein, and I sat next to each other as guests. Amazing."
-- Former Washington, DC Mayor Anthony Williams

When politics is a clash between personalities, the country loses. When politics is a clash between competing ideas, the country wins.
— Coach Kathy Kemper


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"IFE's civility events are Washington insiders' dreams – candid, free-flowing discussions with the elite policy makers of our time that bring together the most important players from government, business, industry, journalism, and think tanks. They're a great place to find out what's really going on because the people who attend are having a relaxed, intimate conversation with the guests, not grilling them press conference-style. These events are our capital city's answer to power breakfasts at New York City's Regency Hotel and Beverly Hills' Polo Lounge."

- Ed Henry, CNN White House correspondent